A Ladies Sangeet is a traditional pre-wedding celebration in Sikh and Punjabi weddings, filled with music, dance, and joyous festivities. It is an event where female relatives and friends of the bride (and sometimes the groom) gather to sing traditional wedding songs, play the dhol, and celebrate the upcoming wedding in a lively and fun-filled atmosphere.
Key Features of a Ladies Sangeet Party
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Music & Singing 🎶
- The heart of the Sangeet is folk singing, where women sing traditional Punjabi wedding songs, boliyan, and tappe.
- The dhol (a double-sided drum) is played, setting a lively rhythm for the gathering.
- Bollywood songs and modern Punjabi tracks are often included for a mix of old and new styles.
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Dancing & Performances 💃🔥
- Women perform Bhangra and Gidda, two popular Punjabi dance forms.
- Sometimes, the bride’s family prepares choreographed dance performances or a dance-off between the bride’s and groom’s sides.
- Many modern Sangeet nights are grand affairs held in banquet halls, featuring DJs and LED dance floors.
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Henna (Mehndi) & Festive Attire ✨🌿
- Many women apply henna designs on their hands, making it a Mehndi night as well.
- Guests wear bright, colorful outfits, including lehengas, salwar suits, and sarees, with lots of bangles and jewelry.
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Games & Fun Rituals 🎭🎉
- Playful teasing songs are sung about the bride and groom’s future life.
- In some cases, there are funny skits, storytelling, and interactive games to engage guests.
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Food & Drinks 🍛🍹
- Traditional Punjabi cuisine, chaats, samosas, pakoras, sweets, and lassi, are served.
- Some Sangeet nights also feature cocktails and mocktails for a more modern touch.
Who Attends?
- Traditionally, a Ladies Sangeet was an all-women event, but in modern Punjabi and Sikh weddings, it has evolved into a mixed gathering where both men and women participate.
- Some families merge it with the Mehndi event, making it a larger pre-wedding function.
Is a Ladies Sangeet Necessary?
- While optional, the Sangeet is one of the most anticipated pre-wedding celebrations in Punjabi culture. It sets the festive mood, strengthens family bonds, and ensures the wedding festivities start with high energy!
